This post is specially for you. Most times, we struggle with the trauma of watching the people we love slide through our hands because we don't know how to keep them. This awkward situation usually spurs jealousy and hatred especially when they slide into the waiting hands of people who are just not worth it. This is just a little guideline on how not to let that asshole(forgive my choice of words), who thinks he controls the game, get hold of something you really want for keeps. *Thank me later*
1. Hey! easy with the rush!
Try being just friends at first. Coming on her with full force will only scare the poor girl away. U know, do crazy stuff together, find out what she likes doing and pose a worthy competitor, listen to her when she has something to say, no matter how stupid they sound, talk when you have to so you don't seem a talkative to her(we haaateee talkatives!), advice when you can and things will begin to fall in place. Forget about the fear of being friend zoned at this stage. Believe it or not, she knows you've got feelings for her, but the whole thing makes her feel very comfortable around you....Every girl wants a guy she could be comfortable around...she won't run off to some new dude in a hurry....trust me *smiles*
